I went and read ot again because I forgot what it was about abd read the comments, it did disappoint story wise because of too many things but the psychology is great. If the story had been longer we could have seen the psychology fleshed put but it was too in our faces, and fast paced to really understand what the author tried with the psychology of the characters.
The ML is the kind of person (because there are women too) that falls in love fast and loses in love equally as fast. Because he based everything on "fate", in his mind he could ignore the warning signs of his relationships not working because they are ment to be, until, eventually nothing works and he divorced them every time. He is of course going to marry women who are the same way, especially because if someone told you "I just met you, I fell in love at first sight, we are ment to be" you would ignore that, its delusional (and he must have told them his theory and they where ok with it, that's why they married, at the end they believed a part of it), at some point your beliefs are going to come out, and they will either nurture or taint your relationship. So to me both parties rushed, ignored and divorced. And that is also why he cluld marry three times in 10 years since Highschool, his girlfriends believed in fate and didnt see the warning signs of someone unstable in the relationship.
At the end of the day MC also has a unique psychology because he knows that the ML hasn't really repaired his believe system, he is trying something new because the other didnt work and his he is jealous to know his friend could be taken. Even that part is sketchy because the Manga is too short but is he really in love with his friend or is he jealous he is not the only one in his life, and that now he has to "share" him when he didnt believe he had to in his past. And, well, they dont really seem to be too close because he never told him about his boyfriends, even if you are in love with someone if they are your friend of 10 years they usually know you are dating someone. Butt the MC either hid it, or didnt see him during that dating period because he never found out, and it was implied he had more than one boyfriend so what happened there. The author glosses over the fact, of whether they were really close or not. And finally even if you like someone for a long time, they are not obligated to like you back, even if they are bi and like your same gender, even if they are pan, or gay or straight.
I hate the fact that them ML got it into his head that he could like the other gender and bam suddenly he is open to it because he saw someone as attractive, and then bam he has to like the MC now because he is open to it. There are so many things wrong here; if you are straight you dont consider going out with someone of the same gender in a freaking day and if you were bi you know you are bi in high-school (as bi I dont speak for everyone but damn I had crushes in Highschool); and again you dont have to like someone just because they have liked you in the first place, lets say he was bi in high-school and suddenly he finds a gay crush, just because he finds a gay crush after a long time doesn't mean that he has to like his Gay friend even if his gay friend has a crush on him (I am not saying that the MC has to stay there); and last if your friend suddenly turns bi or gay for you after 10 years because of a suggestion and he sees it as a new kind of fate (maybe knowing the person after some time means we are ment to be), dont fucking say yes, please dont because it won't last as a true relationship.
I went and read ot again because I forgot what it was about abd read the comments, it did disappoint story wise because of too many things but the psychology is great. If the story had been longer we could have seen the psychology fleshed put but it was too in our faces, and fast paced to really understand what the author tried with the psychology of the characters.
The ML is the kind of person (because there are women too) that falls in love fast and loses in love equally as fast. Because he based everything on "fate", in his mind he could ignore the warning signs of his relationships not working because they are ment to be, until, eventually nothing works and he divorced them every time. He is of course going to marry women who are the same way, especially because if someone told you "I just met you, I fell in love at first sight, we are ment to be" you would ignore that, its delusional (and he must have told them his theory and they where ok with it, that's why they married, at the end they believed a part of it), at some point your beliefs are going to come out, and they will either nurture or taint your relationship. So to me both parties rushed, ignored and divorced. And that is also why he cluld marry three times in 10 years since Highschool, his girlfriends believed in fate and didnt see the warning signs of someone unstable in the relationship.
At the end of the day MC also has a unique psychology because he knows that the ML hasn't really repaired his believe system, he is trying something new because the other didnt work and his he is jealous to know his friend could be taken. Even that part is sketchy because the Manga is too short but is he really in love with his friend or is he jealous he is not the only one in his life, and that now he has to "share" him when he didnt believe he had to in his past. And, well, they dont really seem to be too close because he never told him about his boyfriends, even if you are in love with someone if they are your friend of 10 years they usually know you are dating someone. Butt the MC either hid it, or didnt see him during that dating period because he never found out, and it was implied he had more than one boyfriend so what happened there. The author glosses over the fact, of whether they were really close or not. And finally even if you like someone for a long time, they are not obligated to like you back, even if they are bi and like your same gender, even if they are pan, or gay or straight.
I hate the fact that them ML got it into his head that he could like the other gender and bam suddenly he is open to it because he saw someone as attractive, and then bam he has to like the MC now because he is open to it. There are so many things wrong here; if you are straight you dont consider going out with someone of the same gender in a freaking day and if you were bi you know you are bi in high-school (as bi I dont speak for everyone but damn I had crushes in Highschool); and again you dont have to like someone just because they have liked you in the first place, lets say he was bi in high-school and suddenly he finds a gay crush, just because he finds a gay crush after a long time doesn't mean that he has to like his Gay friend even if his gay friend has a crush on him (I am not saying that the MC has to stay there); and last if your friend suddenly turns bi or gay for you after 10 years because of a suggestion and he sees it as a new kind of fate (maybe knowing the person after some time means we are ment to be), dont fucking say yes, please dont because it won't last as a true relationship.
Interesting read all around.