I know that he loves him dearly, but it puts me off so much like wtf? If i love someone I ...

I know that he loves him dearly, but it puts me off so much like wtf? If i love someone I cant even bring myself to “punish” them like.. you saw them in pain but you just brushed it off because u felt betrayed? And disappointed..?.. idk alot about relationships and ik this is fiction but damn. You dont have to do allat. You can do other things but not THAT. Iykwim… ts so frustrating huhu