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Also don’t even try that lazy “you like problematic BL” line like it’s some clever comeback because someone that call you all out. Drop that nonsense right now. That was never the point, and you all know it. Dark, mature or messy BL stories aren’t the issue at all, at the very least they’re actual canon gay stories, no baiting, no vague hints, no games. Quit bringing harm to the community (doing everythingjust to continue shipping queerbait confirm just friendship and turn your energy toward real gay work instead)
Once again as a gay myself, Shut the fuck up
Shipping hyunjae x yoojin from the s classes that I raised shrinks queer identity down to nothing more than a throwaway fantasy or fun headcanon accessory you can slap onto anything. You twist every rescue scene, every shoulder lean, every teasing line, every quiet promise to stand together through everything, and very obvious just confirm friendship queerbait into what you call “undeniable proof” they’re secretly in love, completely ignoring how the narrative explicitly frames those exact moments as brotherhood‑level loyalty. By forcing romantic and gay dynamics onto characters clearly written as straight or strictly platonic friends, you treat queerness like a costume you can change up or wear whenever you want. It turns into a silly, popular game: “how far can I stretch this friendship until it reads as gay?” instead of recognizing that being gay is a deep, unshakable core part of who a person is, not a creative prompt or dramatic twist you just turn straight friendship into gay just for fun.
Even worse, it fuels unfair hate, hostility, and damaging stereotypes that stick to every gay person regardless of what they do)(even affect us Antishipper who just want canon gay instead of delulu). Outsiders, casual readers, critics, and industry creators watch you dissect every panel, label a casual hug or confirmjust platonic besties as “romantic coding,” argue aggressively with anyone who disagrees, spam comment sections, or even paint readers who only see friendship as homophobic or “missing the point.” They stop seeing you all shippers (same breed as narusasu) as just a loud, vocal subset minority of fans, they associating all gay people and bl fans with those exact behaviors. The stereotype spreads fast online and bleeds into real life: that every gay person over‑analyzes every tiny interaction, twists basic human kindness into romance, cannot accept platonic bonds between men, and lives entirely inside a made‑up version of the story instead of what’s actually written on the page. When fandom drama blows up or creators push back against the chaos, everyday gay folks who never shipped these characters, never harassed anyone, never twisted canon or attacked others end up lumped together by default. We get mocked, blamed, or hated for choices we never made, simply because outsiders can’t tell the difference between your delusional headcanons and our real identities. We constantly hear lines like “you people are always making everything gay” even when we’re the ones standing up and saying “stop twisting this and give us actual confirmed rep already its 2026.” We end up taking the backlash for your behavior, and that’s unfair and exhausting.