I want someone to tell me does sex actually hurt and can still be pleasurable cuz from way I see it in Yaoi it always have to hurt to lead to uke getting addicted to pain and pleasure, I don't think I ever read vanilla sex in Yaoi before where uke just enjoy sex with out pain
An@l can be extremely good when done right. Don't just take what your reading at face value. It can be painful but most of the time its not. If you like a little pain tho you can have both. Pain and pleasure do go hand in hand for some people.
I want someone to tell me does sex actually hurt and can still be pleasurable cuz from way I see it in Yaoi it always have to hurt to lead to uke getting addicted to pain and pleasure, I don't think I ever read vanilla sex in Yaoi before where uke just enjoy sex with out pain