i mean they are 90% of yaoi is written by straight women who dont know the definition of consent and think its hot to cry, scream no and stop during sex. giving them the benefit of the doubt, i will choose to believe its because theyre virgins who have no idea how sex actually works irl. but its very upsetting to me that a lot of teenagers do read this stuff, its legit dangerous. lovesick dog is genuinely the only yaoi ive read that depicts not only consent but enthusiastic consent and communication during sex.
definitely. sadly it gets to a lot of them, even adults. in turn we see rape apologist rhetoric a lot in this community because people dont want to admit their favorite stories include graphic depictions of rape. which is why its so harmful to romantize these depictions, people are incredibly naive and ignorant

Ok, I'm ngl I am getting tired of these BL stories soft-launching grooming or these inappropriate age gaps and dynamics... like, why was bro trying to act like a parent while he was literally getting his dick sucked .. also WHY do they have to meet when one is a child?? like he got updates on his life HE WATCHED HIM GROW UP I just can'. Idc that its fiction it”s still weird asf