I'm only on ch 18 and can say that I somehow relate to Heechan, he lacks empathy towards Taekin as he deals with school life differently. I was a victim of bullying from 3rd grade up to 4th grade. I was the most quiet student in the whole class since 2nd grade and barely had any friends. The bullying started in 3rd grade, mind you, it wasn't just verbal, it involved punching from boys that says had a crush on me. Then one day, it may sound dramatic but it is real, I stared at myself in the mirror and remembered all the bad experiences I had encountered. I tried to practice coming up with an answer when they made fun of me, I also practiced how my expression will be when I say the words. I started doing bag punching. I practiced almost every day until I mustered up the courage to fight back. I don't remember being bullied by girls but rather those boys who says had a crush on me. I used to be a crybaby but learned to stop my tears, and no longer just stay silent when they talk trash about me but rather throw them a punch when I get fed up, slap them, scratch, kick them until we fully got into a big fight and my classmates would run to stop us. All of them are on my side as they truly know that it was never my fault to begin with and never have I ever started a fight. Since then, I learned to fight back and don't let anyone just humiliate me. That's how I deal with bullies and manage to survive them. I even fight for my classmates who also experience bullying. Growing up, I always say to myself that I can do it, this is what you gonna do if they say or do this. Don't show your weakness and let them do whatever they want to me. I became a strong person, I believe I have a strong fighting spirit now tbh hahahaha. But don't get me wrong, I'm not introverted but rather have many friends. I did enjoy my elementary days and never experienced depression or anything else. But I think because of these circumstances, I partially lost my empathy. Because I find a way to stop the issue and survive so why can't they? But then Heechan's employee was right, not everyone can be like you.
I'm only on ch 18 and can say that I somehow relate to Heechan, he lacks empathy towards Taekin as he deals with school life differently. I was a victim of bullying from 3rd grade up to 4th grade. I was the most quiet student in the whole class since 2nd grade and barely had any friends. The bullying started in 3rd grade, mind you, it wasn't just verbal, it involved punching from boys that says had a crush on me. Then one day, it may sound dramatic but it is real, I stared at myself in the mirror and remembered all the bad experiences I had encountered. I tried to practice coming up with an answer when they made fun of me, I also practiced how my expression will be when I say the words. I started doing bag punching. I practiced almost every day until I mustered up the courage to fight back. I don't remember being bullied by girls but rather those boys who says had a crush on me. I used to be a crybaby but learned to stop my tears, and no longer just stay silent when they talk trash about me but rather throw them a punch when I get fed up, slap them, scratch, kick them until we fully got into a big fight and my classmates would run to stop us. All of them are on my side as they truly know that it was never my fault to begin with and never have I ever started a fight. Since then, I learned to fight back and don't let anyone just humiliate me. That's how I deal with bullies and manage to survive them. I even fight for my classmates who also experience bullying. Growing up, I always say to myself that I can do it, this is what you gonna do if they say or do this. Don't show your weakness and let them do whatever they want to me. I became a strong person, I believe I have a strong fighting spirit now tbh hahahaha. But don't get me wrong, I'm not introverted but rather have many friends. I did enjoy my elementary days and never experienced depression or anything else. But I think because of these circumstances, I partially lost my empathy. Because I find a way to stop the issue and survive so why can't they? But then Heechan's employee was right, not everyone can be like you.