Yess, I was just having a conversation about this, this world is very male dominated even in the queer community where everyone is supposed to equally accepted, I think bl kinda dominates the queer community because there is so much of a variety, you can read about twinks, bears etc, you don’t get that kind of variety with gl
A 100% rooted in patriarchy never let anyone convince you otherwise. Cuz I've seen Thai bl "fans" crash tf out just cause their favourite bl series had a lesbian couple kissing for 2 seconds. And the worst part is, they don't even realise how homophobic they are being lmao. Another hot take is that there's a shocking number of bl fans that are homphobic af towards irl gay ppl.
Maybe because patriarchy and misogyny aren't "buzzwords" when they're describing actual patterns. If you're seeing those words 20 times a day, you might want to consider whether the problem is the vocabulary... or the subject matter.
As for new vocabulary, may I suggest: denial, dismissal, and willful ignorance?

am i the only one who thinks that bl being more popular than gl is sort of rooted from misogyny what abt yall though ? do u guys have any explanation why bl is more popular than gl