I mean they aren't really in a loving relationship
Ahjo sees it as a transaction like bottom gives his ass up and gets paid to make him feel better
That's why he acts the way he does and it does piss me off
He's inconsiderate and a shit not wanting to here the other out and the bottom is just dumb af
Except that’s not why he acts the way he does he acts that way because he’s angry at the thought someone he trusted could ruin his life (he didn’t) and then on top of that left him with nothing and so he uses the situation now to take that anger out on the bottom now and no the bottom isn’t dumb he feels he ruined his life (he didn’t not) … that’s like if you’re rich and someone gets hurt because of you, you would be more inclined to take care of them

He gets mad the mc doesn’t enjoy himself during sex and then does whatever the fuck he wants might as well jack off and watch porn … he only cares about getting himself off he ask questions then gets pissed when it’s the answer he wants to hear ???? All because of what a teen leaving you years ago because people were saying he forced himself on you only for u to turn around and accuse him of sexually assaulting you just like everyone else…once mc gets over his guilt ML is screwed