Moral question for yall

I would say no. She didn’t have feelings for him when he was a kid. It wasn’t until he was an adult that she noticed him and grew that attraction. It would be another thing if she had tried to foster some sort of romantic relationship when he was a minor.

It’s not, it would be if she was attracted to him when he was younger or a kid. Or like the comment above says tried to groom him or create a relationship with him when he was underage.

Pedophilia is explicit attraction to children. The FL and ML got together when they were both adults. FL was 0% attracted to ML before their reunion. I think you just don’t feel comfortable with big age gaps (and perhaps older FLs)

that assumption is so crazy bruh. i think it’s valid to ask whether it’s morally okay. not once did the original commenter say that their age gap is odd if they had met for the first time at 24/31. i

it’s not pedo bc she’s not attracted to a minor and i don’t think it’s immorally wrong in this specific case as she didn’t interact with younger ML to the point where she could remember him years later. i do understand where you’re coming from though. i’ve read many manwha/manga where the older lead has thoroughly interacted with the minor and then they get together after the minor is an adult which I find absolutely odd.

It's not and i dont think its immoral wither but I personally would feel weird about it irl and also know a bunch of people who feel the same way.
Even as a trope in fiction its a bit iffy to me when the adult knew the love interest as child especially if its some reincarnation/fated lovers thing and it feels like thr adult is grooming/preying on thr younger one....
Not the case in this story obviously.

No, she didn't even gaf about him when he was a kid. If she had liked him since then, it would have been