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idk man. if you like science, then go for stem and allied. if not then go for being a pilot or business management or publishing/editing. or even go for stuff like being a professional chef if thats your forte. whatever it is you choose be sure you'll be ok doing it for a long time. you can switch up fields of work these days ofc. but always a good thing to have a reliable skillset that you can make an income from.

I had the same issue and this is what I did:
1. Figure out what I did NOT want to do
2. Ask myself what I would enjoy studying
3. In the fields selected at step 2, what are the career paths?
4. Is there a strain on those jobs? Too many / not enough applicants? (that is, will I find work if I study this?)
5. Visit the school and ask the teachers about the career success of alumni, contact professionals of the careers you're interested in and ask them about their work

Stability and having time for yourself are stuff you gain after working the same job for a while. You need to create your routine first (yes even in repetitive factory jobs, because of shifts and the mental fatigue at the end of the day)

Now if you want jobs that pay and are always in demand... Electrician, plumber, locksmith. The kind of people that you call when you're stuck (in the dark, in deep shit, or outside). Mechanics (not for cars or trucks, dream bigger) too, and this is a pretty stable job.

Personal advice is stay away from the medical field if you want more time for yourself lol
Im thinking go for an office job that doesn't demand overtime or weekend shifts or one you can do remotely at some point with flexible hours as you progress
With the way things are going now, maybe consider a career in cybersecurity or data analytics etc
It's okay if your passion lies elsewhere and not in your career and just use it to support your passions:)