I hope some of you guys know you can just SCROLL through a comment you disagree with, specially if its about someone finding a character feminine when you personally dont.
No need to pick a fight over it and keep insisting on it when the other party simply states thats their personal opinion.
Some of you guys are clearly new to bl and queer spaces overall and got your recommendations from places like tiktok (no issue with that in particular), but problem arises when you want to convince EVERYONE AND JUST ANYONE that your character can not be feminine and has to be masculine, even if other ppl interpret it in a different way.
Hating on femininity is NOT the take you think it is. Queer men ARE allowed to be feminine, it doesnt make them less of a man, it doesnt take away from their masculinity, they are still VALID. The fact that many gay men still suffer more prejudice in real life for being feminine, and yet you try to bring that kind of hostile environment over here is in itself harmful, and in no way woke.
Lastly, if you are gotta enter fandom spaces PLEASE learn fandom etiquette first. Fighting over the fact that someone thinks your favorite character is feminine is NOT it. You are not gonna get far, if anything, you WILL be getting your ass clocked even worse in no time
I hope some of you guys know you can just SCROLL through a comment you disagree with, specially if its about someone finding a character feminine when you personally dont.
No need to pick a fight over it and keep insisting on it when the other party simply states thats their personal opinion.
Some of you guys are clearly new to bl and queer spaces overall and got your recommendations from places like tiktok (no issue with that in particular), but problem arises when you want to convince EVERYONE AND JUST ANYONE that your character can not be feminine and has to be masculine, even if other ppl interpret it in a different way.
Hating on femininity is NOT the take you think it is. Queer men ARE allowed to be feminine, it doesnt make them less of a man, it doesnt take away from their masculinity, they are still VALID. The fact that many gay men still suffer more prejudice in real life for being feminine, and yet you try to bring that kind of hostile environment over here is in itself harmful, and in no way woke.
Lastly, if you are gotta enter fandom spaces PLEASE learn fandom etiquette first. Fighting over the fact that someone thinks your favorite character is feminine is NOT it. You are not gonna get far, if anything, you WILL be getting your ass clocked even worse in no time