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from what ive read of a lot of this style of story in BL, a lot of the time the character is known as someone that doesnt choose love or take the idea of relationships seriously cos they've witnessed or experienced romantic partnerships or love go bad, maybe cos its simpler to break down in 5-6 chapters or maybe cos it's just the trope a lot of these creators like

at some point i thought that the seme was under the asexual umbrella? maybe demi or arromantic; that would've been more interesting for me, i guess i understand the trauma and why he didnt expect much of relationships but i genuinely thought he just wasnt capable of falling in love easily like everyone else. the uke is really cute so it's just a fun read !