well we can see that he loves him so much, but he does not trust him enough to keep all of those problem to himself, he just want him to be honest and tell him what is going through to his life because they are already in a relationship, but he choose to keep it to himself and he make the other person think that way. I understand them both. but I want them trust each other and think that they have each other no matter what happened. but idk anymore.
Imagine your lover hid everything from you to the point literally everything from you that you now just hear the things he do from other people like you’re some message receiver and not an actual lover instead of communicating with you, how would you feel. Both have problems communicating, its not a one-sided thing.
He loves him but his actions does the opposite because living someone =/= hiding things and being passive aggressive. Keeping your lover in the dark until things blow up so he's left dealing with the fall out instead of open communication doesn't show love. Giving uke's trauma with his parents and how they treated uke probably didn't help. In the end, they're to not a good match currently
Wtf.. how isn't that loving him. He loves him so much that he's scared to tell him things so he won't abandon him... Run far away please. Make him think of how he's been treating you (╯°Д °)╯╧╧