The story is really sweet I'm happy the uke loved him completely.from my personal experience I too had a lover who special someone died before they met me.He loved me but I always felt a distance between us.When they said they would name my child their past lovers name I felt numb.I love them and I respect the past memories but i always felt like I was a replacement a bandaid to their wound which would never heal.I knew it going into the relationship but after few years I couldn't do it.I knew they loved me but the presence of their past lovers lingers everyday.I respect that but I couldn't do it.We broke up and they were genuinely sad we couldn't make it.but I told them it's not there fault I knew what I was signing up for but I was hurting inside.i am sad I made them be my lover only to cause all this.I don't know stepping aside was right but my mind started going to a dark place and my days were becoming grey.I had to end it before I fell into the void too ..
The story is really sweet I'm happy the uke loved him completely.from my personal experience I too had a lover who special someone died before they met me.He loved me but I always felt a distance between us.When they said they would name my child their past lovers name I felt numb.I love them and I respect the past memories but i always felt like I was a replacement a bandaid to their wound which would never heal.I knew it going into the relationship but after few years I couldn't do it.I knew they loved me but the presence of their past lovers lingers everyday.I respect that but I couldn't do it.We broke up and they were genuinely sad we couldn't make it.but I told them it's not there fault I knew what I was signing up for but I was hurting inside.i am sad I made them be my lover only to cause all this.I don't know stepping aside was right but my mind started going to a dark place and my days were becoming grey.I had to end it before I fell into the void too ..