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JJ2006 June 25, 2026 6:47 pm

Have u ever had a crush on someone but that certain someone gave u HEAVY mixed signals and now you don‘t know what to do? You have no one you can talk about this and you don‘t have the courage to talk with your crush directly.
The only one I‘ve talked to is ChatGPT but he ain‘t helping. I feel strange

Responses
    NerdJos glasses cleaner June 25, 2026 7:00 pm

    Yeah ts happened to me in 2024 i used to like someone since 2023 couldn't keep it for much longer so I confessed and blocked them right after confessing (lmao fr) they reached out to me being all sweet and what not even 'stay with me' after this i thought our feelings are mutual but they kept avoiding serious talk and would always give mixed signals to me which used to make me feel like crap at the end I couldn't handle allthat and I broke off wtv tf we had going on so my suggestion would be moving on from this person cause they aren't worth it fr but by your words I'm assuming you haven't confessed yet? Aw issoke take your time dear you'll get to the end of this good luck

    hari June 25, 2026 7:02 pm

    try to make that certain someone giving signals be straightforward about his feelings and aout u having crush try to at least get a mutual friend so he / she can help out

    Nenesama June 25, 2026 7:10 pm

    This happened to me for like 6 months, bro dont rely on chatgpt i did too and it made me even more delusional. Talk to people I'll help u and hear u out.
    As for my exp, the guy would treat me like a gf kindaaa?? But at thr same time like a friend anyways if u wanna exchange stories lets text on insta, @/val.dlri0

    JJ2006 June 25, 2026 7:12 pm
    Yeah ts happened to me in 2024 i used to like someone since 2023 couldn't keep it for much longer so I confessed and blocked them right after confessing (lmao fr) they reached out to me being all sweet and what... NerdJos glasses cleaner

    Thank you for your reply. I won‘t say everything cause it would be too long.
    (Please understand my POV. I admit that what I was doing wasn‘t good): I also gave him mixed signals. But that‘s because I don‘t know if he‘s into men.
    I‘m in my final year of school. Our class made "rankings". For example "secret ship" = people who would be a good couple but are not actually in a relationship. I was shipped with a guy I ABSOLUTELY hate (with more than 50%). And in class when we were talking about these rankings he suddenly asked "Would you rather be shipped with me?". I was soooo stunned I couldn‘t speak. I just said "What did you just say?" but he repeated EXACTLY what he just asked. Again, I was too stunned and thought that I had just imagined things (plus his friends were listening) so I just said "uhmm… no".

    hari June 25, 2026 7:14 pm
    Thank you for your reply. I won‘t say everything cause it would be too long.(Please understand my POV. I admit that what I was doing wasn‘t good): I also gave him mixed signals. But that‘s because I don�... JJ2006

    tbh dont do this mixed signal thing please it makes normal relationship complicated

    JJ2006 June 25, 2026 7:15 pm
    try to make that certain someone giving signals be straightforward about his feelings and aout u having crush try to at least get a mutual friend so he / she can help out hari

    Thanks for the tip ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ノ~

    NerdJos glasses cleaner June 25, 2026 7:17 pm
    Thank you for your reply. I won‘t say everything cause it would be too long.(Please understand my POV. I admit that what I was doing wasn‘t good): I also gave him mixed signals. But that‘s because I don�... JJ2006

    Don't play with fire bb!! Mixed signals are the root of doomed relations if you like that guy go for it!!! Practice it over and over. By the way he asked you about the shipping thing, I think it was lwky his way of checking weather or not you feel something for him ╥﹏╥ try spending time with him and get to eo more well then shoot your shot!!! Don't give mixed signals to him either!!!

    kai June 25, 2026 7:34 pm

    try to be more honest and open about both of your feelings w each other, and don't rely on chat gpt! most of that thing says isn't even accurate trust me I've been there lol, just try to ask advice from a friend or w someone having the same experience. I hope things go well between u two!! (๑•ㅂ•)و✧