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The reason why they ended up things was because of their dancing tho(plus he offered to fuck but the ml refused)
the reason why they ended things isn't that he couldn't have sex with a man, but specifically that neither of them wanted to bottom. they both wanted to top because of their fragile masculinity. he didn't have that issue with norman because norman let him top.
I had to reread this entire thing.. It still annoys me that he just suddenly could fuck a random guy when that's why they ended things.... but also its messy like real life can be. I think he was too scared to ruin their entire thing to rush into sex in case it didn't work out, so he used the other guy to "test" if he actually could. Fair enough. Still I'm a bit petty that he used his first time with a guy on someone else... However maybe it was a good thing he got to experience that BEFORE they got together