i literally opened an acc just to comment I've been reading manhwas for as long as i remem...

i literally opened an acc just to comment I've been reading manhwas for as long as i remember and i don't really care even if the plot isn't to my taste i just drop it bc this my idea of brain rot after a long day but people glazing this made me so mad and alright listen all the chapters till he disappeared for 3 years are so good in my opinion and i like both of their characters.ajashi was so mature healthy respectful as you'd expect from a person in his age i respected that he told the blondie (bad with name i don't even know ajashi's name) that when did i ever stop you from doing what you wanted i liked how he didn't let his jealousy control him and get the best of him in the kissing scene he genuinely respects the Blondie and not just cuz he's pretty and the writer made sure to clarify that.also i think the blondie character is well written and i don't understand why is everyone hating him in the comments listen I'm the champion of the milky way when it comes to any media portraying the bottom as weak no matter the gender let alone women but i don't think it's similar here i think people here are mixing this with the stereotypical cry babies that have no backbone and we know there's probably more media with that plot than we can count but the blondie isn't weak in the traditional way he has principals he has limits that when people cross them he will speak up (just like when his crush tried to fix things but he literally treated him so coldy +when the tattoo guy said I'm sorry the blondie was like if u were sorry you would've apologized then+even when it came to ajashi which is the person who he valued and loved the most he still held him accountable for his actions).he is a sensitive person that's why he cries a lot but it doesn't make him weak he still stands on business if he was a cry baby like people in the comments are saying he wouldn't be working a part time job in a scary neighborhood just for his brother who is in a coma while simultaneously studying for college.i hate them omg kawayi yamiti kudasay oppa im so cute and helpless type shit probably more than anyone else on the planet but there's a difference between a human being who's sensitive but not romanticized or fetishized as a child bc les be honest they always depict them in that way. alright it's good to mention that i think I've read this before but i honestly don't remember and it didn't stick out to me but it's difficult to ignore how everybody is obsessed with this manhwa and honestly so valid TILL CH 76.i did not read 76 of the most 2 healthy reasonable characters being together just for the ajashi to leave him FOR 3 YEARS..3 FUCKKKING YEARS are u kidding me unless he was in jail there's literally no justification the amount of pain blondie went through and it's just brushed off and they're back together??? like it's so disappointing bc i didn't expect that and i can't bring my self to read ch 77 like i truly think the Blondie isn't at fault if u have ever been in love even tho yk it's the wrong to have sex or go back to someone who broke ur heart to that degree and that's what the blondie tried to do at first he truly rejected him multiple time altho he could've been crueler but it's hard bc silence confuses people and that's a reality it's not like ajashi ever treated him horribly or cheated on him or caused him trouble in any way and it's hard to truly hate someone and reject him cruelly even if they leave you and the blondie was embarrassed and he did say he feels humiliated bc he is going back to ajashi after what he did and i obv think what he did is wrong but i don't blame him the older i get the more i get perspective and i understand why you'd accept to feel the pain of humiliation of disrespecting ur self that way just to love and be loved like u never have before and you'll probably never will that's why i don't blame the blondie for going back even when it's objectively wrong but that ajashi???? how can he do that ? what was he possibly doing for 3 years? not even one text?the only acceptable excuse is that he was in jail and even if i was in jail I would eventually reach out and properly end things I'm saying this because the ajashi's character is incredibly healthy in an intentional way like the way he asked for consent for the smallest things the way he isn't controlling in the slightest the way he's so considerate in every way he can.just for him to disappear for 3 years? i truly think if someone does that it's only bc they don't love you enough and the worst part is that the ajashi and even after 3 years didn't reach out IT WAS JUST A COINCIDENCE!! the guy truly didn't give a fuck then suddenly he saw him and he changed his mind? and honestly this is a very human scenario I could be the asshole that disappears for 3 years and the moment I see the person I used to be with I remember all the good times it just hits me again and i don't wanna be apart from them despite being capable of that before but everyone here insist on conveying this as a healthy relationship while it is an ass causing pain for 3 years (even when he's an overall a green flag and genuinely a will written character)expect the 3 years no contact fuck up and if the story after ch 77 does mention this aspect and conveys that they are back together just because the Blondie gave up his principles and self respect to be with him and that he has fears of him living again and they stick to the realistic scenario then I truly apologize for writing all this shit but if the rest is lovey dovey and depict ajashi as a green flag like nothing happened get me out of here this not a pure love story there's nothing pure about someone abandon in you for 3 years