yk the same reasons you are doubting would probably be what makes u guys break up. i think if ur not sure about him is better to leave it
i think your best bet would be to confront him about your concerns. it’s very obvious that the attraction is mutual but even if you get into a relationship with this guy those things the ex said is going to eat away at you and cause trust issues early on. as cheesy as it sounds communication is key. i think if you feel safe enough to bring up these topics to the guy that’s a good sign and as long as you guys are able to talk it out and he doesn’t get like crazy defensive/angry about the comments i think that could be the start of a healthy relationship between you too :D !!! always trust your gut and try leave the rose tinted glasses at home !!! wishing you luck !!!! ٩(^‿^)۶
I think you should talk about this with him. Ask if he is in touch with his ex right now and if he says he isn't then tell him what's concerning you.
So there's this guy who claims to like me and we've been talking for like a month and i do like him a lot like its not even funny but when he asked if i wanted to be his gf i said no . we still talking every day. See the thing is his ex sorta confronted me and told me everything that happened between them which is holding me back. What do i do. Should i stop but like i highkey dont want to stop but again i can't commit cause i have concerns. And like never trust a man 100% duh . but Lowkey like he's my first kiss and i have like almost 0 knowledge about real life relationship n shit . pls help. I'm confused af .