Whether he remembers or not, he's been told that they're married. Married couples go to each other's family functions together. Chayoung still remembers his family. Don't they seem the type to have included the marriage partners in important family gatherings.
What bothers me more ia that chayoung, at the very least, know of one child. So, why hasn't he asked about him? That is likely what is tearing gyuha up the most. Everything else is just weighing down on him, slowly cracking his resolve to be patient. Then the memorial was the straw that broke the camels back.
I'm not sure how much time has passed since the accident, but gyuha's heart has likely been slowly crumbling each time chayoung hasn't showed his tender love & consideration.
We get to see chayoung inner thoughts. Gyuha has been in the dark this whole time. Chayoung doesn't communicate at all. They'll never reconnect if they don't verbally express themselves.
Gyuha is being overly cautious & considerate. Which chayoung sees so he doesn't think he should say anything either. They both need to explode, figuratively, and lay their feeling bare. Only then can we get our favorite couple back.
I was literally just about the comment the first part LMAO
Even when my cousins didn’t have kids, they still brought their martial partners to family gatherings! Even to memorials! After marriage, they are undoubtedly part of the family, and to leave them out in such a way is honestly insulting.
And the last part of your comment is so real. They really need to hash it out without holding back, because clearly tiptoeing around the issue isn’t helping!!
Memorial rite is not something you remember as much as a birthday, especially if it's not an immediate family. hell I even forget my own birthday sometimes. It's not from his family's side ofc he needs a reminder, it's something chayoung has to bring up. Gyuha only went to his friend's birthday cause obviously they talked about it, not because it's more important or memorable. Idk why you see it as "pushing", why can't he have fun with his friends? he even told chayoung about it, he wasn't doing it behind his back.

He's the amnesiac and it was HIS grandfather's rites yet Gyuha is pissed off he wasn't told? the man who was pushing to have drinks with his friends cause it's their birthday? Clearly it wasn't important enough for you to remember so how was he supposed to know? Both sides have no sense of communication yet this comment section will gaslight you to think Gyuha isn't reacting mad weird to things HE'S SUPPOSED TO KNOW ABOUT. Clearly the issue lies elsewhere let's not pretend!
I'm pissy enough because I was ready to bust Chayoung over the sex issue only for me to read the dumbest argument a chapter later.