YESS!! You said it perfectly!!
Yes! This is good bc it shows how chayoung carried the emotional weight and gyuha barely leaned how to express his feelings and is prone to brushing things aside. If it were gyuha with amnesia chayoung would still be able to manage to comfort him and handle things I think, this just highlights gyuha’s need to open up more and make and effort to both understand the other person and be clear with his expectations and desires
This!! I really can't comprehend why they still doing the same thing kept having sex n then act like nothing happen? I mean make some other effort to trigger chayoung memories fr! Show him their kids, live w the kids, go on a date to places they have gone... but no just in the house only the two of them acting like f*ck buddies all over and over again.
The people mad at Chayoung clearly understand sh*t about amnesia...
He's definitely not perfect, but even before the accident, he was the one putting the most effort into their relationship. He matured, became a good husband to Gyuha, and was almost always the proactive one—the one carrying the emotional weight of the relationship— while Gyuha mostly went along with things and rarely opened up about his own feelings.
Yet somehow people expect Chayoung to wake up with no memories and instantly pick up exactly where he left off, like nothing happened. And blaming him for not going back to being a doting husband, or for acting like he doesn’t care about his kids when he clearly can’t even process the fact that he is married and has a family to begin with, instead of acknowledging how devastating and disorienting amnesia actually is, is just ridiculous.
Some of these comments genuinely make me wonder whether people here are actual teenagers and whether they understand how memory loss works at all.
Gyuha also needs to step up now, he can’t keep the same passive role—still emotionally distant and stuck in his old ways— while Chayoung can no longer be the one holding things together as much anymore, and expect things to work...