Seme fearing that dating a "straight" guy will end in a disaster again and uke silently seeing his crush rejecting him and reaching to others for comfort and getting crushed inside, this is a fear that no matter of communication or trust can garantee to erase completely, especially the "proving" part broke my heart, but good thing is I've seen lots of straight dudes in bl-s going "I am straight but if it's you...." while our cutie was like, dude I fell for a guy do I look straight to you? Labels matter to lots of us as a validation so I'm just glad they took the risk.
Seme fearing that dating a "straight" guy will end in a disaster again and uke silently seeing his crush rejecting him and reaching to others for comfort and getting crushed inside, this is a fear that no matter of communication or trust can garantee to erase completely, especially the "proving" part broke my heart, but good thing is I've seen lots of straight dudes in bl-s going "I am straight but if it's you...." while our cutie was like, dude I fell for a guy do I look straight to you? Labels matter to lots of us as a validation so I'm just glad they took the risk.