I can understand where babe is coming from, as in you were depended on yourself your whole life without asking anything from anyone and just living by in your own bubble then out of nowhere someone (who you find out after that because you rejected them) came to you the one who flipped your whole life . The you find out you must depend on them for your health by staying close which you never thought would happen before so you shy from it because you overthinking by wanting that you’re being a burden on this person! Then you come to conclusion on how to be less of a burden by finding other solution!! Without you realising that maybe the other person Chose to be beside you and Want to!
I can understand where babe is coming from, as in you were depended on yourself your whole life without asking anything from anyone and just living by in your own bubble then out of nowhere someone (who you find out after that because you rejected them) came to you the one who flipped your whole life . The you find out you must depend on them for your health by staying close which you never thought would happen before so you shy from it because you overthinking by wanting that you’re being a burden on this person! Then you come to conclusion on how to be less of a burden by finding other solution!! Without you realising that maybe the other person Chose to be beside you and Want to!