he still agreed to be in a relationship with him. the least he could do is explain or at least try to communicate with seme instead of living in his head most of the time. ngl it sounds shitty, but uke is a lil bit selfish. seme is weird too. but oh boy, looks like you’ve never been with a person who acts exactly like how uke does, so ofc you won’t understand just how exhausting and horrible it is to be with someone who can’t even give you a little bit of affection even you’re practically begging for it already.
try being with a person like that, let’s see if you’re strong enough not to develop a separation anxiety. both of them are acting the way they do based on their own traumas, but it still doesn’t give either of them an excuse to be shitty with one another.
I agree with you... I never said uke is an angel who has done no wrong and the seme is the cause of all their relationship problems, I just feel like out of their respective circumstances and traumas, the uke's fear of being outed makes me feel a little bad for him.
Since I've obviously never been begging for someone's affection, you've obviously never lived in fear of being shunned by potentially everyone you love and socially outcast because of your sexuality.
then tell your partner that instead of leaving him in the dark? a simple “i’m afraid my past will repeat itself, so i’d rather we keep lowkey when we’re out in public” is enough, yet he chose to act like a total pos for ignoring his partner? plus, even when they’re together, he’s not exactly being a good partner. lol. why use your fear as an excuse to mistreat other people?
They're both assholes but I am more sympathetic with uke bcs he obviously has some trauma related to being outed, seme is just too pushy and can't take no for an answer