WAHAHAHAHAH as someone who hates harem and love triangles but loves poly and tragic psychological yaoi maybe I can enlighten some of it.
What I hate about harem or love triangles was because at the end of the story, they will only chose 1 and I would really feel bad for the other party, i mean why the need of the others when they’re just going to leave someone. That’s why when it becomes poly, all of them love one another no one is left behind. For the hmm psychological one cz you can see that I like dark fall, mr. A farm, jinx etc uhm we are just messed up? we love good green and fluffy stories but we also need something diabolical, something to frustrate us that’s how I can move not get bored in just reading one trope. Also it’s those trope that have the best looking guys and have the best smuxy scenes

Why the one who always complain about sexualisation or harem on this website are the one who mostly read and adores hardcore BL/yaoi full rape (especially romanticised tape) and violent sex?
They have the right to read whatever they want bu I don't understand the logic.