Gaon has a hero complex, this is established from the start almost as if it were something she inherited. When you have a hero complex, you seek out the runts, the oddballs, the ones with issues... because even if you know they're a lost cause, part of you still wants to be "the one" for them, the one who "fixes" them and always gives them a chance.
Gaon's intentions may be different, but that's not how the individual would see it. They'd see a sweet girl who's there for them, and they get attached because where else are they going to find what nobody else gives them? Who else really knows them or cares the way she does?
Gaon wants to be the hero without considering what it does to those she "saves".
I'm not saying she's shallow ofc, her intentions always seem to be good at face value
thank you for the long explanations, I am well aware of what kind of character she is, and yes, she's not shallow at all, I actually LOVE her a lot, but I still hate those guys cus the obsession they have for her aren't healthy at all and they're annoying, I need to see them turning adult already and how their relationship going to play out

also, Gaon babe, what did you even do in your past life to have every annoying guy latch onto you? I know you secretly hate them