So? We like "too feminine" guys; they're lovely. Plenty of femboys go on hormones to achieve that, too. Just cuz you look like a girl doesn't mean you can't be a man. People like that exist irl, so idk whats with your preference here. "Too feminine" men are gonna exist regardless of whether you like that in fiction or not. Skip these mangas if you don't like them; clearly, they're not made for your preference.
The only feminime are his face his body still man like. Also it because his hair longer cause setting in historical era, i saw this artist other art about this couple in modern era and the uke feature and outfit still like ordinary man, he just have pretty face. And their height gap quite small only built body have different gap, i think when it come to manhwa i wouldn't assuming author making women with dick since actually manhwa author making bottom still tall and built like a man (most of them have lile 170 cm or more)

Why do they keep making men so girly(LIKE TOO GIRLY THAT THEY JUST NEED TO NOT HAVE A DICK AND YOU WOULDN'T EVEN BE ABLE TO KNOW ITS A MAN)