yeah i get it haha he does try for their relationship and i know he doesn't have any ill intentions about any of his actions but he's just so relaxed and very optimistic about everything and everybody that sometimes it backfires to him and affect their relationship. that's what annoys me actually he doesn't think the consequences of his good choices could badly affect someone else (or his relationship)

for some stupid reason the top just annoys me and i hate that lol