shes 12 and hes of marriageable age? i hope hes not ml

Well marriageable age at that time for guys was like around 14 years old so... (and for girls 12)

But your still right it depends what age the author give them

id really hope so, because another thing that makes me doubt the age gap is that hes already the strongest knight

at 14?? thats such a stretch

even if he was 16 itd be so weird, to me at least