How did he ruin his life to be with her?
As far as I remember they were saving up for him to go to college. He didn't chose her over a scholarship, his family did hive him an ultimatum. he handed the money over to someone he trusted. Then he took out money in her name. He didn't do that FOR fl.
Don't read that in an aggressive tone. I'm genuinely confused, maybe I missed something. Because I read that all the time.
there's a flashback wherein haesoo was getting beat up by his deadbeat father again and mincheol had seen it that time mincheol was also saving up money for him to go to college but choose to run away with haesoo and start life with her that's why they even live in that dirty basement
rereading this just to realize how asshole and dirty his ex husband was I even pitied him in those recent flashbacks like bruh you put her in debt, torture her life by degrading and comparing her with other bcs she frugal, blaming her bcs u chose to ruin ur life to be with her and that shes hard to get pregnant and the final bomb cheating on her to boost your ego. comparing him to taeha is literally an insult even if he have mysterious vibes ykwimლ(´ڡ`ლ)