I don’t man the problem is the betrayal imagine your lover or your best friend betraying you in any way without considering your feelings, not apologising and not trying to reach you in any way won’t you feel betrayed?? For this situation Imagine either your loved or best friend going to your parents and telling them about I don’t know for exemple a kink you have, things you did at parties (alcohol drugs sex ,…) or something that could make them disown you and something you especially thrusted that person not to reveal and they decided for you that it was how you and your family should stay away and after catching them in the act they don’t reach you for 10 years while you waited for them imagining excuses for what they did willing to forgive them had they apologized, it’s the same kind of betrayal or even worse than your bff having sex with your lover I think and personnally I couldn’t get past that, relationships end for way less and forgiveness is earned bro stayed away for 14 years, so yeah I get why you feel this way but I think it’s the kind of thing that are hard to get past quickly especially when nothing was done to resolve the issue and cheol was left supposedly « waiting » for him without even knowing that he wanted to come back he didn’t know about his plan or anything for 14 years,
but yeah I hope they quickly live happily too lol I get that it can be frustrating I really love them and I don’t think anybody is better for cheol he needs someone who loves him this much they are made for each other (≧∀≦)
Also he seems more upset about the fact that he didn’t apologise or reach out for him faster than the outing (maybe I’m wrong) I don’t think the outing in itself is the biggest issue for cheol
I don’t Know man**
Yeh I get what u mean I understand. I get the apology thing also cause the ml didn't care about the mc in that moment he was just trying to like offend the dad.
And yeh then he went and disappeared for years without one.
Ok I don't know what it's like to get outed so I can't be on anyone's side 100% but I still feel like the mc should give the ml a little bit more leeway when it comes to the past ( obvi there's already a lot yk seeing as he doesn't hate him completely) and I also think the mc knows this thats why he's doesn't hate the ml BUTT what I'm trying to say is his dad already hated him he took his chance to go abroad, the last fight they had he literally already beat the shit out of him so is coming out/ getting outed rlly the worse thing he couldve have done. His brother literally pushed him off the side of the building, like he almost died. As I said obviously i can empathise the pains of getting outed to a homophobic family. What I'm trying to say is that the gay thing was honestly just another needle in a pin cushion iykwim.