I understand your frustration with the female lead, but at the same time we understand his behavior due to other context clues. Her perspective is skewed due to the fact they grew up together and that he doesn’t have a particularly good home life. He spends almost every night at her place, and also she’s not as socialized as she should be. She’s been hospitalized for the last year with solely people to dote on her. There’s no one in her life that doesn’t really dote on her that’s at least within her immediate circle. Her recognition of his behaviors stems from what’s familiarized with her. If everyone else around her enables it, she wouldn’t see it as that then, to her it becomes normalized.
Thanks, didn’t even think about that perspective!
But it still doesn’t make the whole situation and behaviors of both “okay”. It’s already more than doting, it’s being dependent, which is understandable given their situation but dangerous.
The only thing saving this relationship and not already having toxic attachments is the innocence and naivety of being young and in love I guess.
Sorry but suho is getting real weird and annoying .
I get being sml, I get being in an unrequited love, I get being jealous and acting out, I get that they’re close because they grew up together…
What I don’t get is overstepping bounds. Bro literally nobody is continuously touching fl randomly everywhere as he is doing. Sorry but watching alone makes me sooo uncomfortable. Who cares if you grew up together, when her own brother isn’t touching the fl as he is doing??
But the biggest problem is fl herself not even realizing, how his behavior is problematic and thus enabling it, and also making him hope for more. Anyone and even suho himself can tell that she is not into him that way. But her being okay with him acting that way around her is soo problematic!!
Also just common sense: nobody thinks that the way suho is acting, is normal childhood friend behavior.
I seriously don’t get how naive the fl is and it’s starting to trigger me really bad.
Sorry for the paragraph, if anyone has different opinions please comment, I’d love to hear your thoughts on this. :)