Can’t really explain it. I’ve never been to keen on romance, but somehow I’m ok with BL romance. I think it has to do with how the character are written. In most straight romances, the female and male leads usually follow the same archetype, (usually kind, sweet, clumsy, plain girls and cool, collected, handsome guys), whereas BL has a bit more variety. Overwhelmingly it follows the same archetypes, poor, clumsy, virgin and cool, collected, handsome guy, but I feel it’s easier to find stories with characters that are more fleshed out than in straight romances.

For a long time, I've wondered what it is that draws me to yaoi. Maybe bc im unbelievably straight, and seeing two d*cks has gotta be better than one(lmao). But recently I realized it's bc there's just better writing, on average, in the BL community. On ao3, i like just as many same-sex ships as I do straight ones. But in webtoons and manga, I generally prefer BL bc josei romances just feel so...bland to me. The character designs are always overly flowery and the female leads are generally bland and perfect. They lack layers and dimension.
The male ML's are similarly flat but are often extremely perfect to a point where theyre indistinguishable from one ML to another. But they always fall for the MC so quickly that it makes you wonder what there even is to like. My current fav josei is Childhood Friend Complex. The chars are unique, flawed but enjoyable, and have genuine chemistry thats special to them.
Anyways, I was just wondering what makes BL tick for you guys.