"I will continue to look at you like you're a monster. I will never try to like you. Everything you do and say just proves that you are a monster. The only thing you can do from here on out is make me hate you more. Even if you won't let me kill myself, I still want to die just being around you. You are keeping my body, but you will never have my heart. So either give up and let me go if you're looking for love from me because you won't get it. Or kill me if you can't let me go because I may as well be dead."
Then he needs to not react positively to the mans actions. Control his voice, be even more withdrawn after and point out the physiological reactions are not proof of enjoyment. You can hate what's happening to you and still come. It's one of the most insidious things about sexual assault and sexual abuse and it intensifies the shame cycle of victims.
"I will continue to look at you like you're a monster. I will never try to like you. Everything you do and say just proves that you are a monster. The only thing you can do from here on out is make me hate you more. Even if you won't let me kill myself, I still want to die just being around you. You are keeping my body, but you will never have my heart. So either give up and let me go if you're looking for love from me because you won't get it. Or kill me if you can't let me go because I may as well be dead."
Then he needs to not react positively to the mans actions. Control his voice, be even more withdrawn after and point out the physiological reactions are not proof of enjoyment. You can hate what's happening to you and still come. It's one of the most insidious things about sexual assault and sexual abuse and it intensifies the shame cycle of victims.