Try it! We all start somewhere, just be honest. Theres nothing wrong with letting them know where you’re coming from and that you’re figuring it out, you can also experiment with toys at home/within your comfort zone!
T, B, PT, PB or V, find how you click. I prefer being in control but as a woman, I obvi switch depending on who I’m with. Remember that there are no set roles, versatility is a thing and it’s all about what you and your partner find most groovy.
It doesn’t sound like they were attempting to assume just that they were being forward with their preferences. That way if you also said you prefer receiving and it was non negotiable, he could determine if he liked you enough to be exclusively a giver. Just communicate, you got this!
Also, personally, much easier to adjust as the top than the bottom lol!
Thank you, I think I really need to hear someone say this!
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How do y‘all know if you‘re a top or a bottom?
I have like zero idea what I like. I can‘t imagine myself fuckin a guy or getting fucked (pls don‘t judge I‘m an innocent 19 year old guy )
I matched with this guy on bumble and he gave me bottom vibes from the very start. He‘s super interested in me. For the past days we texted a lot and we have good chemistry. Then I talked about this very topic and he straight up said that he‘s more into bottoming but also only done it once. So he‘s assuming I‘m the top? Kinda scared what to do I never got this far. Send help!
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