That really sucks, I hope your grandpa recovers well. Life happens right when you least expect it, and you're doing the right thing by being supportive even though it changed the plans you had. When things cool down again, maybe suggest another day to spend time with them as a belated birthday present to yourself. I'm sure they'd understand, and even be grateful that you were flexible during that scary time. Good luck, and happy birthday!! There will be many more wonderful birthdays to come <3

So my birthday is on the 30th this month, but I have to go to a hostel on 26th for my exam prep, so my family decided to celebrate it on 25th, now this was maybe like a week b4. But yesterday my grandpa (maternal) fell ill and is admitted at the hospital, so my mom is busy taking care of him yk getting food to them(my grandpa and aunt) and all. So now i get no birthday celebration, I mean I never really like wanted one I just wanted to spend the day with my family together now all I get is a cake today and no mom with me. I mean i understand that during different times you gotta behave accordingly but idk why I kinda feel sad, like I don't know, it is my 18th birthday and all and not getting to spend the day with my family in itself is kinda sad and now I don't get a pre celeb either so idk, I mean i love my grandpa and I know what she is doing is right but still, am I being too emotional. I didn't tell anyone this lol