As much as I am loving and more intrigued by this second couple and their relationship dynamics, I do hope that Jin-tae is able to establish new boundaries after deconstructing his own biased belief’s about secondary genders. In the sense of Dawun was there to change his mind on what it means to be A/b/o by questioning him on his ideas but still offering empathy which is great. But he’s also very charming and lil boundary pushing which at this point Jin-tae is okay w because it allows him to explore a new part of himself that may be uncomfortable at first but is happy to do so cuz it’s leading to a better life. That being said when you deconstruct your own belief you need to reconstruct a new healthier one w new boundaries and I hope the author is able to show that Jin -tae is still able to say no when he doesn’t like something and it’s not just brushed of or excused by Dawun cuz he knows he can sweep him up into his charm. It would be sad to watch someone going from controlling to being controlled. ( which I highly doubt is going to happen this is an amazing second couple and the redemption of Jin-tae’s character was well handled) anyway I’m really enjoying what I’m reading so far I need moreeeee yummm
As much as I am loving and more intrigued by this second couple and their relationship dynamics, I do hope that Jin-tae is able to establish new boundaries after deconstructing his own biased belief’s about secondary genders. In the sense of Dawun was there to change his mind on what it means to be A/b/o by questioning him on his ideas but still offering empathy which is great. But he’s also very charming and lil boundary pushing which at this point Jin-tae is okay w because it allows him to explore a new part of himself that may be uncomfortable at first but is happy to do so cuz it’s leading to a better life. That being said when you deconstruct your own belief you need to reconstruct a new healthier one w new boundaries and I hope the author is able to show that Jin -tae is still able to say no when he doesn’t like something and it’s not just brushed of or excused by Dawun cuz he knows he can sweep him up into his charm. It would be sad to watch someone going from controlling to being controlled. ( which I highly doubt is going to happen this is an amazing second couple and the redemption of Jin-tae’s character was well handled) anyway I’m really enjoying what I’m reading so far I need moreeeee yummm