does anyone else feel like its cringey when BLs have this kind of trope where somebody get...

does anyone else feel like its cringey when BLs have this kind of trope where somebody gets kidnapped or stabbed or something? i always feel like its too dramatic for the rest of the story and it feels unrealistic ToT i think ive only seen it a couple times but each time im just like ugh why is this happening and i cant stop laughing cuz it feels so ridiculous to the plot