When Dohun first met Yuwon he makes a wish that he would take his unhappiness. To begin with that was always an odd choice in wording but I think it was very intentional. At first glance this is just cute wishful thinking when you read between the lines he made the wish for his own selfish reasons. I always thought that Yuwon blaming him was always form of self hate being deflected off of him and unto Dohun. He actually is fulfilling his wish by taking blame he’s becoming both the source and the “cure”. He’s making himself an inseparable being from Yuwon’s suffering.
Naturally you would think taking away someone else’s unhappiness equals a person’s happiness? Every effort made has the opposite effect they even break up idky that’s so funny to me. It only pushes Yuwon further away and into Seungmin’s arms. He even says, “it’s true I need Seungmin by my side bc apart from loving you I have other needs that need to be met” despite being given a better living situation, food, financial stability the deer would do similar for the tree. These are all his Dohun’s ideas of happiness btw he has no idea how to make Yuwon happy.
What would those needs he mentioned be? Seungmin once asks Yuwon do you love Dohun? He lists all these reasons why he doesn’t believe he does. He can tell he’s uncomfy around him and questions how he can breathe around him but not his bf. Isn’t that sad a coworker provides more relief for him than Dohun does. Dohun thinks the solution for this is to take him away from the workplace all together but Yuwon says he doesn’t want that. Staying at home would make him feel useless he’s not some houseplant. What an interesting comparison. Leading up to their breakup Yuwon would ask for sex from Dohun and when he didn’t give it to him he’d feel uneasy. He needed reassurance and one of the last things he asked for from him was honesty. Dohun couldn’t provide that.
When Dohun first met Yuwon he makes a wish that he would take his unhappiness. To begin with that was always an odd choice in wording but I think it was very intentional. At first glance this is just cute wishful thinking when you read between the lines he made the wish for his own selfish reasons. I always thought that Yuwon blaming him was always form of self hate being deflected off of him and unto Dohun. He actually is fulfilling his wish by taking blame he’s becoming both the source and the “cure”. He’s making himself an inseparable being from Yuwon’s suffering.
Naturally you would think taking away someone else’s unhappiness equals a person’s happiness? Every effort made has the opposite effect they even break up idky that’s so funny to me. It only pushes Yuwon further away and into Seungmin’s arms. He even says, “it’s true I need Seungmin by my side bc apart from loving you I have other needs that need to be met” despite being given a better living situation, food, financial stability the deer would do similar for the tree. These are all his Dohun’s ideas of happiness btw he has no idea how to make Yuwon happy.
What would those needs he mentioned be? Seungmin once asks Yuwon do you love Dohun? He lists all these reasons why he doesn’t believe he does. He can tell he’s uncomfy around him and questions how he can breathe around him but not his bf. Isn’t that sad a coworker provides more relief for him than Dohun does. Dohun thinks the solution for this is to take him away from the workplace all together but Yuwon says he doesn’t want that. Staying at home would make him feel useless he’s not some houseplant. What an interesting comparison. Leading up to their breakup Yuwon would ask for sex from Dohun and when he didn’t give it to him he’d feel uneasy. He needed reassurance and one of the last things he asked for from him was honesty. Dohun couldn’t provide that.