Why is it that any type of manhwa abortion or just the idea of not having kids is never discussed or considered in the case in which the fl does not want to have a child but for one reason or another is induced to have it with a total drastic change of heart? I mean I do get it that this is a historical manhwa so everything has to be historically "accurate" but also in modern ones it's always the same story , it doesn't matter how the fl feels, if she's contrary to the idea of giving birth like here or even if she just doesn't want pregnancy , she'll still end up having it. I know her father meant well when he said that she could give birth because her situation was different from her mother but atleast for me it just sounded like " your mother was in a poor situation, but you aren't ... so forget all about your past, all the drama you suffered and all of the traumas you just told me about and give birth with your husband!" Like she clearly told him everything about how she feelt while giving birth in her past life, we also saw how it got depicted and she battled about it too to her husband that was on her side (the actual ml) so why couldn't the father do the same or rather maybe just tell her to follow her heart and do whatever she wished even not having the kid? I just can't continue to read over ch 112 I feel at lose of heart cuz it only served her a single word to continue with the pregnancy ,the same thing on which she had debated and endured the thought of it for so many chapters as she should because it left a scar on her and she strongly decided with her own strength to not to go through another pregnancy in this life .But that single conversation with her father seemed to make her past thoughs be rather meaningless and that made me a bit sad 'cuz it also reminded me of how it is in real world where girls, womens are categorically forced to give birth against their ideas abd emotions, atleast in this story the fl seemed happy at the end .I still get it that emotions can change. The ml is also a really good husband and a total green flag totally st the feet of the fl(๑•ㅂ•)و✧. *all of this was just a though I had in mind I may get a lot of hate or idk disagreement cuz it seems most of the people here love getting a family based always on kids and not just a lovey-dovey couple happily married with just eachother and their life , i do too sometimes ,but I hope that there will be a bit more of manhwas where traumas regarding women and the idea of giving life are actually a bit more cared and talked of and not just brushed off like the wind.
Why is it that any type of manhwa abortion or just the idea of not having kids is never discussed or considered in the case in which the fl does not want to have a child but for one reason or another is induced to have it with a total drastic change of heart? I mean I do get it that this is a historical manhwa so everything has to be historically "accurate" but also in modern ones it's always the same story , it doesn't matter how the fl feels, if she's contrary to the idea of giving birth like here or even if she just doesn't want pregnancy , she'll still end up having it. I know her father meant well when he said that she could give birth because her situation was different from her mother but atleast for me it just sounded like " your mother was in a poor situation, but you aren't ... so forget all about your past, all the drama you suffered and all of the traumas you just told me about and give birth with your husband!" Like she clearly told him everything about how she feelt while giving birth in her past life, we also saw how it got depicted and she battled about it too to her husband that was on her side (the actual ml) so why couldn't the father do the same or rather maybe just tell her to follow her heart and do whatever she wished even not having the kid? I just can't continue to read over ch 112 I feel at lose of heart cuz it only served her a single word to continue with the pregnancy ,the same thing on which she had debated and endured the thought of it for so many chapters as she should because it left a scar on her and she strongly decided with her own strength to not to go through another pregnancy in this life .But that single conversation with her father seemed to make her past thoughs be rather meaningless and that made me a bit sad 'cuz it also reminded me of how it is in real world where girls, womens are categorically forced to give birth against their ideas abd emotions, atleast in this story the fl seemed happy at the end .I still get it that emotions can change. The ml is also a really good husband and a total green flag totally st the feet of the fl(๑•ㅂ•)و✧. *all of this was just a though I had in mind I may get a lot of hate or idk disagreement cuz it seems most of the people here love getting a family based always on kids and not just a lovey-dovey couple happily married with just eachother and their life , i do too sometimes ,but I hope that there will be a bit more of manhwas where traumas regarding women and the idea of giving life are actually a bit more cared and talked of and not just brushed off like the wind.