Ahh I think I mistakenly read it as “ Nonchalant and loves aggressively seme/uke” but might aswell give you reccs based on what I got Boss Bitch Baby, Colossal, Kemono Asobi, The Drastic Love In Midnight, Caste Heaven, Die If You Aren't A Virgin (Yaoi)
Can someone recommend this kind of relationship dynamic (any genre is fine, but preferably yaoi/shounen ai):
"Nonchalant X loves a bit more aggressively"