I don’t really think he’s becoming colder, but definitely becoming more guarded. And honestly, there’s no way he could prevent that change, being with Heejae. When we constantly deal with people who have severe mood swings, high expectations, and harsh tones, it is normal to become more guarded/reserved when we interact with people. It’s how we protect ourselves, as we know an upset is bound to come, often multiple times a day. We even “dim our own lights” at times to diffuse situations. It’s a normal reaction to such a heavy relationship, and I hope Garam can navigate through it without stifling himself too much.
I don’t really think he’s becoming colder, but definitely becoming more guarded. And honestly, there’s no way he could prevent that change, being with Heejae. When we constantly deal with people who have severe mood swings, high expectations, and harsh tones, it is normal to become more guarded/reserved when we interact with people. It’s how we protect ourselves, as we know an upset is bound to come, often multiple times a day. We even “dim our own lights” at times to diffuse situations. It’s a normal reaction to such a heavy relationship, and I hope Garam can navigate through it without stifling himself too much.