first and foremost I am not defending the Mokyeon because what he did was completely wrong. i just think it’s weird that everyone is acting like that selfish twink shouldn't be bashed. if we’re asking why nanjo wouldn’t stay with someone who blackmailed him into sex, then why was he expected to stay with someone who basically said “if you want to be with me, you have to keep having threesomes with someone else”? both situations involved him ignoring his own wants because he was chasing someone who didn’t treat him well. the twink created the toxic dynamic, and mokyeon made it even worse. but to be neither of them is blameless. all 3 are idiots.
first and foremost I am not defending the Mokyeon because what he did was completely wrong. i just think it’s weird that everyone is acting like that selfish twink shouldn't be bashed. if we’re asking why nanjo wouldn’t stay with someone who blackmailed him into sex, then why was he expected to stay with someone who basically said “if you want to be with me, you have to keep having threesomes with someone else”? both situations involved him ignoring his own wants because he was chasing someone who didn’t treat him well. the twink created the toxic dynamic, and mokyeon made it even worse. but to be neither of them is blameless. all 3 are idiots.