I understand Rey being a pedo and taking advantage of him, what irritates me is that, some...

I understand Rey being a pedo and taking advantage of him, what irritates me is that, someone extended a helping hand to you and you didn't take it, all because the person is all you know and have? You are willingly choosing to stay with a man you know hates you just because you love him? That shows you understand that you are a victim and are choosing to stay one