Do you expect her to get over her self loath overnight. This isn't years off inferiority complex and self hate that you somehow expect to vanish because off the kindness she's got from few people. Lol, see she's been wired this way all her life, not to put herself first but consider the well-being of others before hers, so if you find her annoying or frustrating, trying being into her shoes as a child, if you can't conquer that because few people showed you kindness then you aren't a superhero. These things don't vanish overnight, they're there forever, now matter how much you erase it, you still get a glimpse once in awhile. So, leave paula alone
Do you expect her to get over her self loath overnight. This isn't years off inferiority complex and self hate that you somehow expect to vanish because off the kindness she's got from few people. Lol, see she's been wired this way all her life, not to put herself first but consider the well-being of others before hers, so if you find her annoying or frustrating, trying being into her shoes as a child, if you can't conquer that because few people showed you kindness then you aren't a superhero. These things don't vanish overnight, they're there forever, now matter how much you erase it, you still get a glimpse once in awhile. So, leave paula alone