Her feelings are totally justified. When you've been neglected for so long, suddenly being love bombed out of nowhere will obviously feel overwhelming. So understandably she'll have to take some time to understand her own feelings and desires. It is realistic that she doesn't even understand her own feelings, and emotions. She'll need to analyse it on her own terms, and take time to make sense of all this. It really doesn't help that she took on a side project in helping her friend. On top of that she is unconsciously projecting onto that couple. She needs to focus on herself first, is what i believe. What does she want? To study abroad, to experience romance, to live a normal average life of a commoner? Whatever it is, it will take time. That man either needs to be patient with her or step aside. After all, it's the least he can do after everything he put her through.
Her feelings are totally justified. When you've been neglected for so long, suddenly being love bombed out of nowhere will obviously feel overwhelming. So understandably she'll have to take some time to understand her own feelings and desires. It is realistic that she doesn't even understand her own feelings, and emotions. She'll need to analyse it on her own terms, and take time to make sense of all this. It really doesn't help that she took on a side project in helping her friend. On top of that she is unconsciously projecting onto that couple. She needs to focus on herself first, is what i believe. What does she want? To study abroad, to experience romance, to live a normal average life of a commoner? Whatever it is, it will take time. That man either needs to be patient with her or step aside. After all, it's the least he can do after everything he put her through.