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ye, agree. people will not understand sangwoo unless they are intjs as well or have friends/fam who are intjs
I’m going to be honest, I don’t see how Sanwoo is wrong because realistically is common to be upset about cleaning up after others and reading text without spacing. Honestly, I think they are both neurodivergent because not understanding the need to space and rejection of social rules can be neurodivergent traits.
its actually so sad that some ppl call sangwoo suffocating. he is most likely on the spectrum, he is very straightforward and has a system in life that is very rigid but its a system that keeps him regulated, stable and happy. you might not think he's compromising much but the fact that he's probably changed his whole everyday life to be with another person, its definitely already a big ask for Sangwoo. the actual problem is that they both just havent communicated enough, sangwoo and jaeyoung havent spoken up about the things they tolerate. they both have things theyve silently accepted about the other person that is actually bothering them they just have to talk it out. they love and respect each other so im sure theyll figure things out