It's an act of submission to take it from another person (dick or strap-on). I know that some man like a bit of fingering or rimming from their partner and don't consider it submission but receiving an act of service like a bj
yes and men who are the ones receiving, are typically seen as the ‘woman’ of the relationship often making them seem weak or vulnerable which threatens their masculine imagine of themselves
its so sad to see that misogyny seeps in even in queer relationships like these
No it's not submissive and deprecating to be the receiver during sex... That's several layers of fucked up. Do you think women are doing an act of submission everytime they have sex too?
No. I don't think being submissive is weak and that I agree with that traditional male mindset. I was explaining why a lot of man are so opposed to bottoming in any way as they think it's feminine to be submissive. The commentor before you also explained it well. Taking it doesn't make you a woman obviously it's just what's going through their mind.
Sorry you worded it in a way that made it seem like you are telling me that bottoming is an act of submission. English is hard, I get it
English is not my first language either I was also under the assumption that "submission" isn't bad I guess I used it the same way as "passive"
Idk why men act like it's a breach of their masculinity to bottom when it's only men that have a gspot in their ass.