the reverse of the trope though... that's fine. whore bottoms, virgin tops for the win
I am opposite, either they both have experience (of some sort) or both are eachothers firsts.
Why it's okay for bottoms to be whore but tops weren't?
I actually have the same question? I don’t like either of them to be wh0ring around but why do you think it’s okay for the uke and not seme???
True, it's like a double standard. Maybe theyre trying to connect it to the stigma around women. If it's the men who sleep around, it's somewhat alright, but if it's the woman, it is seen more problematic (sex is invasive, pregnancy is a risk etc.)
But I wouldn't really say the opposite is empowering either.
Just my opinion ofc
Yea no you got a point there it’s definitely not empowering either, we see women in the real world promoting whoring around (and filming it) but even women (including myself) have strong negative opinions about it, even though it’s more normalised for men to be doing it, i think it counts for both men and women, since men also gets all kinds of stds they’re spreading around. In conclusion none of it is empowering, my opinion too!
it's mostly a matter of it being refreshing to see something different from the common trope of the virginal bottom, whore top. it's truly nothing deep i just enjoy a role reversal tbh. idgaf if it's a double standard im just sick of seeing the same shit.
irl i dont fw whoring around in general (men or women, i think it's bad either way and i dont fuck w any kind of sex work as well), but in fiction i dont mind it as much.
preferably, they'd both be virgins or both experienced (to an extent). but if someone's gonna be a whore and someone's gonna be a virgin, id rather see something different from the usual trope.
i was NOT expecting a whole discussion around something that was mostly a joke to me lmao but yeah
I fw your opinion since it’s lowk what i’m thinking too for the most part, but i get what you mean by the usual trope, either way i’m getting tired of whore ml/mcs weather it’s the uke or seme
It’s just fun to see other peoples opinions too
Yea, that's alright. My fault for equating it irl and even assuming the reason for ur preference. Hahaha my bad. Sorry about that
As for me, I don't really mind whether seme/uke is a "whore" or maybe I haven't read that much so it doesn't bother me for now. Haha
oh no you're good. we all have our own opinions and i think it's good to think critically about things, regardless of the original intent or whatever. i do agree with you for the most part, i just have my own silly preferences when it comes to this kind of stuff lol
can i be honest rn w you guys and say that i fucking HATE whore semes when the uke isnt also a whore? i HATE the virginal bottom, experienced top trope. it's absolutely insufferable every time and i will almost always want the seme dead tbh