crazy that you don’t understand how grooming works …. the affects of ray grooming & abusing him as a child don’t just up and disappear after he turns like 21 yrs old that guy raised and took care of a kid who was living in the streets, ban has always depended on him and on top of that ray has complete control over his feelings. and you think ban can just up and leave ??
actually, this story shows what its like to be groomed. Cuz it comes with lots emotional and psychological manipulation which has caused him to be soo dependent that he cant leave. kinda like stolchome syndrome. (sorry i cant spell) you really can't leave at will like that. its really hard
Baby I never said I expect him to up and leave because on some level I get that this is because of ray grooming him but then again on a deeper level I don’t actually get what it’s like hence my comment
Ray is so unlikable I can’t imagine why he has feelings for him like okay he took care of you as a child but you’re an adult no and he kind of treats you like leftovers I can’t imagine being so desperate for a person’s affection that I’ll take these shitty crumbs