I understand how seeing two hot, intelligent men is intense, but damn the switch comments are getting wild. Especially when they are inherently trying to complain that others are just "not ready" for switching. Sounds like they aren't ready for BEING POLITE. Do you walk up to couples saying "hey, I think you two are switching since you look like it. No matter what you say, that's gonna be the truth because I want what I want and I don't care about you"? Girl, I'm sitting here not because I hate/ love switch but because I love me a strong power bottom and honestly this dynamic is just my type. It's a preference, not fear of switching. If I saw dynamics I don't like, I shut up and went away. It's called having dignity and giving yourself grace. So why can't we all do the same? Nobody says it can't be a switch, and the couple is gorgeous, but the intention of author is very clear. You can accept it and move on, or continue to make a fuss and just unintentionally make people uncomfortable with you and your preferences, and then blame people. Btw sweeties, I feel it in my soul how you want to spread the beauty of what you like to others, but don't put your ideal over others. Don't discriminate when you don't mean to
I understand how seeing two hot, intelligent men is intense, but damn the switch comments are getting wild. Especially when they are inherently trying to complain that others are just "not ready" for switching. Sounds like they aren't ready for BEING POLITE. Do you walk up to couples saying "hey, I think you two are switching since you look like it. No matter what you say, that's gonna be the truth because I want what I want and I don't care about you"? Girl, I'm sitting here not because I hate/ love switch but because I love me a strong power bottom and honestly this dynamic is just my type. It's a preference, not fear of switching. If I saw dynamics I don't like, I shut up and went away. It's called having dignity and giving yourself grace. So why can't we all do the same? Nobody says it can't be a switch, and the couple is gorgeous, but the intention of author is very clear. You can accept it and move on, or continue to make a fuss and just unintentionally make people uncomfortable with you and your preferences, and then blame people. Btw sweeties, I feel it in my soul how you want to spread the beauty of what you like to others, but don't put your ideal over others. Don't discriminate when you don't mean to